Some people really need to get this straight :
1) Its NOT ok to hassle and/or harass someone just because the other person threat you to do so, no matter how fucked up the situation was, or how desperate they made you feel at that time. I don’t care, its NOT ok.
2) Its NOT ok to threat people into doing incredibly stupid things which causes long-term embarrassment and the total lost of dignity and self-respect. Do you even realize what you’re doing?
3) Its NOT ok to discard people’s keepsakes from the past. In life, the people we’ve met shaped us into who we are today. He doesn’t get from immature to decent by accident, it takes a life-long process, so have some respect for his past and the people before you.
4) Its NOT ok to apologize repeatedly then caught doing the same shit afterward. Its uncool and makes you look stupid.
5) Its NOT ok to limit what others can or can not do, simply for your convenience. Stop being so self-centered and ignorant, its irritating. People grew tired and starting to hate your guts.
And last but certainly not least:
Insecurity is a problem you need to deal with ON YOUR OWN. An adult trying to make a relationship work by acting like a brat, throwing tantrums and getting paranoid over insignificant things is disturbing and creepy and sick and shows that they're not suitable for any kind of long-term relationship.
A real relationship is to be with someone who wants to share his life with you by choice, not by force. You want something you can control? Here’s a TV remote, knock yourself out.
